First dates can make you feel as if you’re walking on a thin line over a pit filled with hungry alligators. You’re anxious, excited, and trying your best not to fall. It’s a wild trip, but it can also be exhilarating when you know how to handle the situation. Read more now on struggling with getting dates.

Let’s talk about the preparation. Imagine yourself going on a vacation. Wouldn’t you bring the necessities? Obviously not! Same goes for dating. Prepare for your date by thinking about what to wear and where you want to go. Also, prepare what you would like to talk about. It’s important to plan ahead.

Picking the right place is key. A busy bar can drown out conversation, while an expensive restaurant may feel stifling. Choose a venue that is both relaxed and lively to keep things exciting. A cozy coffee shop or casual restaurant are great choices.

Dress for the occasion, but not too much. Comfort is important; you do not want the evening to be spent adjusting your dress or tugging at your shirt collar. Think smart-casual. Clean jeans with a nice shirt will do.

Let’s now dive into conversation openers. Avoid feeling like a job-interview; no one enjoys being grilled. Instead, ask open-ended and funny questions or share funny stories that can spark conversation. “What was the strangest food you ever ate?” You can have some funny exchanges.

Listening and talking are equally important. Show genuine curiosity about their stories and opinions. Nod and laugh with them (even when they’re Dad jokes) to make them feel understood.

Body language speaks volumes too. Lean in slightly to their conversation; this shows you are engaged. Don’t stare at them as though you’re having a staredown with a kitten.

What about humor, then? Humor is your friend. It’s easier to break the ice by making a joke at just the right moment or by playing a little tease than it is to say “awkward quiet.” Be light-hearted. Stand-up comedians are not necessary.

Did you know that there is a proper way to follow up after a date? It’s easy, yet overlooked: Send a follow-up email thanking the person for their time. Also mention something from your date you both enjoyed.

We must face rejections head on because everyone will experience it sooner or latter. Take it in stride and don’t get caught up in self-doubt. Sometimes the chemistry between two people is just not there. It’s okay.

After the initial nervousness has subsided, second dates can be more challenging because the expectations are higher. Maintain the momentum by choosing a low-pressure activity like art or mini-golf. This will keep you occupied if your conversation becomes stale.